Even though I work with artisans in third
world countries where people by most standards are defined as poor, I have seen
just as much poverty in the States as I have around the world. It's because I've
learned that poverty is not defined by the amount of money in your pocket. You
can be poor whether you live on a dollar a day or $100 a day or even $1000 a
day.
Poverty is a mindset that can enslave you and
to tell you the truth I have personally fallen into its trap. I was fortunate
to learn the joy of living in abundance at an early age. In college, I was down
to my last dollar and knew I needed to do laundry that in that era would cost a
dollar but I wanted to give an offering in church so I gave the whole amount
anyway. Miraculously, the next day an encouragement card came in the mail from
an distant acquaintance and inside was a crisp one dollar bill! I
found the reality of abundance when my tangible assets were depleted but there
were other times when my account was full yet I lived in poverty because I was
stuck in limiting thinking.
Poverty-thinking is when I worry about not
having enough. That kind of fear leads me to either vigorously hoard what I
already have or to live at a hectic pace trying to accumulate more. It leads me
to believe that working harder will prevent the panic of lack.
Poverty-thinking fosters jealousy. It believes
that if someone appears to have more than I, that somehow my
chances of
having enough are diminished.
| Nicole |
Sometimes it even resents the success of
another and expects a portion of their profits. Nicole, from Haiti, is an
artisan I really respect. She is a real entrepreneur and has started several
successful small businesses including a bread bakery using solar ovens. But as
soon as she starts making money her neighbors start lining up with their hands
extended demanding their share! If she doesn't, they can make life
miserable for her.
Poverty-thinking believes resources are in
such limited supply that if I don't grab my fair share before someone else
does, I will lose out. That mindset makes me stop seeing others as a potential
friend or partner but rather as an obstacle to be stepped over.
But poverty thinking may not always be wrapped
in obvious negativity. Even an altruistic point of view can succumb. There have
been times when I was offered gifts that I KNEW represented a huge sacrifice on
the part of the giver; like the chicken lovingly sacrificed for my lunch in
Kenya by a family who had little more than a mud hut and heart full of
gratitude. Or the sugary cake
baked over a charcoal oven by artisans who pooled
their pennies because they were grateful for their training. Everything in me
resisted accepting their gifts because I knew they had so little and I didn't
want their resources to be depleted. I believed if they gave to me, their lives
would be made even more challenging, maybe even unsafe.
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| Kenyan Cake |
On my last trip to Haiti after the earthquake
in 2010, I contracted Dengue Fever for a second time. It is caused by a
particularly virulent mosquito whose bite causes high fevers, joint pain and
potential death since there is no treatment for it. I know the day I got bit. I
almost know the exact moment. It was late afternoon and it had been a long hot
day. I had taken a bottle of insect repellent on the trip but ran out earlier
in the week because you need to cover every part of your body night and day. I
thought about asking one of the team members if I could borrow some of theirs
but was afraid they might run out and then both of us would be susceptible so I
opted not to. On the surface that might sound like a kind thing to do but in
reality it was based on a mindset of poverty. I believed that there couldn't
possibly be enough for all of us so I quietly "sacrificed". If I had
asked I would have found out that there was plenty of repellent available for
all of us. I just didn't know it was still packed away in their suitcases
waiting for the need. Now the doctor has advised me never to go back to Haiti
because contracting it a third time would likely be fatal. My belief in
scarcity when there was really enough actually created more limitations
than I ever imagined.
What if we all were to give up living in
poverty and stepped into the glorious abundance of enough?
What if we truly believed there was enough for
everyone to have their needs met?
What if we could sincerely rejoice in the
successes of others and encourage them to flourish even further?
What if we gave up the hungry grabbing for
more and instead rested in knowing that today would be filled with enough?
What if we could freely express a legitimate
need and know that the satisfaction of that need would come on precisely the
right day in exactly the right way so that all of could find joy?
What if we knew that none of us needed to
stay stuck in poverty but could freely move into abundance?
We could change the world!

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